Let your reasonableness be known to everyone.
Christians believe God orchestrates every circumstance. Every person on our path is there on purpose. Through a joy in Jesus, Christians can cooperate. Have you learned to accept less than you think is deserved? Selfishness destroys the capability to cooperate. Self-sins dwell far too deep to come to our attention. When the light of God reveals “self-sins,” we realize the only option is “self-denial.” “Whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin” (James 4:17).
Pray that you will deny yourself.