Just as I have loved you, you are to love another.
We either deflect or reflect the love of God. Those with a closed heart towards God deflect the love. Deflected love is directed at ourselves. We love because we get something out of it. “For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have” (Matt. 5:46). Reflected love is directed at others regardless of position or conditions. If you have withheld love towards others, repent. Do not let your heart be hardened and do not refuse repentance. Your life depends on it.
Pray to love as Jesus loves.