Whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.
1 John 4:7
No person on the planet can live with love absent of God. (An absence of God is found only in hell.) Our contact with God is the catalyst of love. There is a major difference between the love of a believer and non-believer. The distorted heart of man causes love to be deflected from its true goal. Deflected love is self-directed. To be born again is to love those you never loved before. If you truly love God, you will reflect His love for others. The clearest mark of being born of God is the expression of concern for everyone.
Pray to love even the difficult people.